Friday, 26 October 2012

Simplicity - The Glory!

Simplicity is Nature!

I admire elegance, I have an aesthetic to appreciate glitters and finer things in life.But to me, the actual beauty lies in 'simplicity. Why? Because the actual dignified expression is possible through simplicity. We can only be happy when our lives will shift towards this supreme excellence. Style, luxury, manners and character all has to balanced with simplicity. Or else we will only be creating our lives perplexed and tensed. 

"That's been one of my mantras - focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it's worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains. " 

So true isn't it? The extraordinary aspects of great deeds have their basis in simplicity and in fact it is this very quality which make them great! 

"Manifest plainness, embrace simplicity, reduce selfishness, have few desires." - 
Lao Tzu 

Saturday, 20 October 2012

LISTEN carefully!

No doubts that silence is the great of source of strength, but listening is a power fool tool as well to posses. The lost habit and hardly considered to learn the skills.

In my observation, there are number of reasons why people don't listen. 
1. Lack of patience to concentrate what other people have to say.

2. Superiority complex-one think's that his/her opinion or thoughts are far better than the other person. As somebody has rightly said "Big Ego have little ears". 

3. Habit of arguing rather than listen, discus and solve problems calmly. People sometimes tend to argue much without listening to the whole story.

4. Too much talkative. It's perhaps the most common of reason why people listen less and speak far more.

There can be many more psychological reasons as well why people don't tend to listen the way they should be as its the major problem among many relationships that both or either parties don't concentrate and give sufficient time to listen and ponder over each other's issues. The inability of this lead them to devastating effects, both for the relationship and their personality. It is thus can be understood how important is to develop and nurture this art of listening.

Build patience, improve your ability to concentrate by going through different therapies and exercises,   you can also get some professional help if you want, be generous and positive towards other people thoughts and be respectful to every one's opinion. You will feel so much better, so much fuller by adopting this in your personality, that you will never feel irritated again and bored. 

Thank you for your time :) 

Thursday, 11 October 2012

Success...Want More?

The term has different meaning to different people. The actual attainment always remain diversified and can be understood in various perspective. As i have observed that success for some people is more than that of a material possessions, it's about self-actualization and self attainment. And i believe truly that this is the only success after all! which lasts till life and can yield to all the success of the mortal world. "Things work out best for those who make the best of how things work out.”  And there is always one best way to do anything in this world. You just have to find out that in the right context and act rightly and justly up to that extent that synchronize with the situation. And leave the results to Almighty with strong faith, as then He will definitely results the best! If a person builds this strength within oneself, is the true success of that person. 
“Don't spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. ”