Monday, 17 September 2012

Forgive & Forget !

Forgiveness --- It is only for the strong ones, to believe, to practice and to remember. As a weak person can never forgive, it is only the characteristic of a strong person! Every person and every event of our lives are actually the part of our experiances which eventually helps us to make ourselves a better human being. So we should actually be thankful for those who gave us certain experiances and learnings in life and not to blame them or hate them. A wise person is always who extracts postivity in EVERY situation of life!
Also, forgiveness is not act as i believe it should be integrated within our attitude! it will help alot. Because you see we all make mistakes, we all learn and we all have troubled situations but that doesn't mean that we are bad and cannot be trusted or let to move on. We all need it. Its an investment for ourselves.
Afterall that if Allah forgives us we must forgive ourselves and others too!

I would love to share my favorite quotation of Mother Teresa,  - the legend  she rightly said:

"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.” ---Mother Teresa

Feel the soul of it and you will be free - spread the fragnance of firgiveness!

Sunday, 9 September 2012

Manners Make Man


"Politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax" - Unknown Author

Theres only perhaps only one reason why human being has been created as the most pious and sacred of all beings of Almighty, and that lies in the sensitive awareness of the feelings of others which we call as "manners". It is as important for a human being as water to a plant and without which not only our purpose of being dried out but also out souls. It is the greatest of all honors for a human being to be in etiquette. It is the science of living. It embraces everything. It is ethics.
A person who attains and keep trying to strengthen good manners will always have something far better in his personality with those who have the best education. “Etiquette is the fine tunning of education.”
It is the most common behavior that to react with the same rudeness when someone treats us un-politely. We almost forget that the thing or behavior we are condemning in others which make us annoyed, is exactly the same which we are also acting upon when being rude. We have to be polite to such people not because they are nice, but because we are!
As one of the greatest victories you can gain over someone is to beat him at politeness.. :)  And trust me on this, sooner or later even the hardest of bevaviors melts down to courtesy and well being only with your patience and politeness.