Give MORE than you CAN --Be Generous

I have been writing about a number of qualities that a person should have. Still pondering on giving more to get more. Today i am posting about the root of connection between us and The Creator, generosity. 

I will be not wrong if I say that there is nothing more soothing for soul to reach for people and support them for a better life. I never felt so happy unlike I felt when became a reason for someone's smile. Tend to give more than you can, is what Khalil Gibran called as generosity. Actually I think generosity is also about giving yourself to those who are around you with all the dedication and love they deserve, do it in the true sense of doing it. Not because they need you, but because you actually need the will of your Creator. We give what we receive. 
Generosity also allow you to re conceal your mistakes. When you commit one, be generous and honest about it and in accepting it. I bet you will never feel that way once you start adopting this habit.

Share your views to the world!  Stop at nothing. Keep giving. 

“You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you.” 
― Debbie Macomber, One Simple Act: Discovering the Power of Generosity

Simplicity - The Glory!

Simplicity is Nature!

I admire elegance, I have an aesthetic to appreciate glitters and finer things in life.But to me, the actual beauty lies in 'simplicity. Why? Because the actual dignified expression is possible through simplicity. We can only be happy when our lives will shift towards this supreme excellence. Style, luxury, manners and character all has to balanced with simplicity. Or else we will only be creating our lives perplexed and tensed. 

"That's been one of my mantras - focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it's worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains. " 

So true isn't it? The extraordinary aspects of great deeds have their basis in simplicity and in fact it is this very quality which make them great! 

"Manifest plainness, embrace simplicity, reduce selfishness, have few desires." - 

Lao Tzu 

LISTEN carefully!

No doubts that silence is the great of source of strength, but listening is a power fool tool as well to posses. The lost habit and hardly considered to learn the skills.

In my observation, there are number of reasons why people don't listen. 

 

1. Lack of patience to concentrate what other people have to say.

2. Superiority complex-one think's that his/her opinion or thoughts are far better than the other person. As somebody has rightly said "Big Ego have little ears". 

3. Habit of arguing rather than listen, discus and solve problems calmly. People sometimes tend to argue much without listening to the whole story.

4. Too much talkative. It's perhaps the most common of reason why people listen less and speak far more.

There can be many more psychological reasons as well why people don't tend to listen the way they should be as its the major problem among many relationships that both or either parties don't concentrate and give sufficient time to listen and ponder over each other's issues. The inability of this lead them to devastating effects, both for the relationship and their personality. It is thus can be understood how important is to develop and nurture this art of listening.

Build patience, improve your ability to concentrate by going through different therapies and exercises,   you can also get some professional help if you want, be generous and positive towards other people thoughts and be respectful to every one's opinion. You will feel so much better, so much fuller by adopting this in your personality, that you will never feel irritated again and bored. 

Thank you for your time :) 

 

Success...Want More?

The term has different meaning to different people. The actual attainment always remain diversified and can be understood in various perspective. As i have observed that success for some people is more than that of a material possessions, it's about self-actualization and self attainment. And i believe truly that this is the only success after all! which lasts till life and can yield to all the success of the mortal world. "Things work out best for those who make the best of how things work out.”  And there is always one best way to do anything in this world. You just have to find out that in the right context and act rightly and justly up to that extent that synchronize with the situation. And leave the results to Almighty with strong faith, as then He will definitely results the best! If a person builds this strength within oneself, is the true success of that person. 

“Don't spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. ” 

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Forgive & Forget !

Forgiveness --- It is only for the strong ones, to believe, to practice and to remember. As a weak person can never forgive, it is only the characteristic of a strong person! Every person and every event of our lives are actually the part of our experiances which eventually helps us to make ourselves a better human being. So we should actually be thankful for those who gave us certain experiances and learnings in life and not to blame them or hate them. A wise person is always who extracts postivity in EVERY situation of life!
Also, forgiveness is not act as i believe it should be integrated within our attitude! it will help alot. Because you see we all make mistakes, we all learn and we all have troubled situations but that doesn't mean that we are bad and cannot be trusted or let to move on. We all need it. Its an investment for ourselves.
Afterall that if Allah forgives us we must forgive ourselves and others too!

I would love to share my favorite quotation of Mother Teresa,  - the legend  she rightly said:

"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.” ---Mother Teresa

Feel the soul of it and you will be free - spread the fragnance of firgiveness!

Manners Make Man

 

"Politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax" - Unknown Author

 

Theres only perhaps only one reason why human being has been created as the most pious and sacred of all beings of Almighty, and that lies in the sensitive awareness of the feelings of others which we call as "manners". It is as important for a human being as water to a plant and without which not only our purpose of being dried out but also out souls. It is the greatest of all honors for a human being to be in etiquette. It is the science of living. It embraces everything. It is ethics.

A person who attains and keep trying to strengthen good manners will always have something far better in his personality with those who have the best education. “Etiquette is the fine tunning of education.”

 

It is the most common behavior that to react with the same rudeness when someone treats us un-politely. We almost forget that the thing or behavior we are condemning in others which make us annoyed, is exactly the same which we are also acting upon when being rude. We have to be polite to such people not because they are nice, but because we are!

As one of the greatest victories you can gain over someone is to beat him at politeness.. :)  And trust me on this, sooner or later even the hardest of bevaviors melts down to courtesy and well being only with your patience and politeness.